Nobody felt no pain after a breakup, especially if we are in the party decided lover. For some people, even a breakup can leave deep wounds that are difficult missing and last long.
Breakup is painful, but try not to get caught up in protracted grief. Reported by Your Romance Guide, there are nine ways you can do to relieve pain after a breakup:
1. Do not Meet with Former Lover Temporary
After the breakup, avoid meeting or relate to your ex-lover. Feelings of shame that still exist may encourage you to call, send text messages or met him. But this action will only remind the pain out of love. You must be completely sever ties with the former, at least for several months to heal hurt feelings.
2. 'Enjoy' It's Pain
It is very reasonable when we lose someone you love. When feeling pain, it means a sign that you're in the process of healing. Weep if you want to cry, and shout if indeed it can make sense of some relief. The pain after a broken love can inspire you to do something better, you never have before.
3. Self occupied
The best way to heal wounds from broken love and forget the former is to keep myself busy. You will not be thinking about former lover, if not give the brain a chance to remember it. Try actively involved in various activities. Choose activities you enjoy. Not only refreshes the mind, many activities also divert your mind from the former.
4. Grief devote You Just To Friend Close
It's okay to tell how hurt you after a breakup. But that does not mean you can talk to every person you meet. Instead of sympathy, these actions can actually make friends away from you. Bijaklah in addressing the 'tragedy' your breakup. Speak only in a friend or someone close to you, just understand you and want to hear any complaints. It would be better if that person can soothe, find solutions and encourage you to continue living.
5. Pour out your feelings in writing
Spilling all the resentment in the writing could be other alternatives to relieve pain from broken hearts. Remove all the pain, frustration and anger you in the diary, piece of paper or computer (but do not pass it to the group email or social networking). After recovering from the
and painful, you can read it again as a means of introspection to establish better relations with the next pair.
Meditation is one of the old techniques for relaxation and relax a tense mind. Sit quietly in your room, close your eyes, take a deep breath, and remove it slowly. While relaxing, you can keep negative things from your mind. Light the candles aromatherapy and instrumental music to add a sense of calm during relaxation.
7. Give Attention on the Family
Parents, older brother or sister may be the people who have a big impact on your life. They will always be on your side good times and difficult. When a love affair with a former lover, maybe you do not provide much time for family. This is the time you devote much time and hanging out with family. Try to get them to recreation, or simply have dinner together. The warmth of the family is the most potent medicine to cure wounds.
8. Focus on Careers
Do not let grief interfere with your work performance. It may be hard to concentrate on work when we suffered a problem. But try to make a career as a priority in your life. With a focus on work, not only helps you forget the heartache, but also improve the performance of your work in the office.
9. Enjoy Solitude
Recover from the pain of a breakup is not easy. Therefore, you need time to calm down for a while. Do not immediately try establishes a new relationship after a breakup to escape.